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Five key reasons why some men cannot stop cheating

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Back when Tiger Woods made headlines for his affairs with multiple women, he was back in the news not too long afterward.

This time, rumors spread that he was cheating on his (now ex) girlfriend, Lindsey Vonn.

It was easy to believe tabloid speculation that his cheating ways were the reason for their breakup, but according to People, Tiger and Lindsey broke up because it just “didn’t work out.”

That’s normal, but sometimes, cheating is to blame. Why do men cheat? And is there a reason why married men cheat in particular?

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Here are 5 reasons why some men cannot stop cheating, according to an expert:

1. That’s all they know.
Some men have been cheating since they were in middle school. It is part of who they are, and it’s so ingrained it has become part of their identity.

Without being a womanizer, they don’t know who they are. Learning to be monogamous takes work. They need counseling to unlearn this behavior and to work on it daily.

2. They have no moral issue with it.
Morally, some men don’t have a problem with hiring an escort. The guy who cheats on you probably feels the same way or he wouldn’t do it. It is easy to be remorseful after the fact. But can morals be taught? In most cases, no.

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3. They have low self-esteem.
Cheaters tend to have low self-esteem — their ego rewards them when they can have multiple women. But cheaters need to learn to love themselves before they can love anyone else.

4. They’re addicted.
Some people are addicted to sex and love. They become obsessed and can’t stop thinking about it until they act on it. Sex and love addictions can be treated with individual and group therapy. However, they’re not going away by themselves. Men who cheat need to do the work to improve.

5. They’re self-sabotaging.
Some men tend to sabotage their lives when it’s going well. They may not know why they are doing or what they are doing and simply can’t stop.

There is always an unresolved issue from their past that causes a person to self-sabotage, so counseling and couples therapy help.

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If your man fits into one of these categories, just know there is hope. He can change if he wants to change, has a good support system, and devotes himself to becoming a better person.

The change won’t happen overnight, he will be tempted to cheat while trying to change. Make sure to get help — change takes time.

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SAD! Professor’s son takes own life inside varsity staff quarters

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Rilokwah Jatau, a 23-year-old student of Nasarawa State University, Keffi (NSUK), was found dead in an apparent suicide in the university’s senior staff quarters.

The discovery was made on April 27, 2025, by Emmanuel Gyawo, a security officer at the university, who was directed by Professor Shedrack Jatau to check on his son.

Upon arriving at the residence, Gyawo found Rilokwah hanging from the ceiling.

Professor Jatau, who was reportedly out of state at the time, was informed of the incident. A team of police detectives, led by the Divisional Crime Officer (DCO) of Angwan Lambu, was dispatched to the scene.

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The body showed no signs of violence, and no suicide note was found. Rilokwah was rushed to the Federal Medical Centre (FMC) in Keffi, where he was confirmed dead by a medical doctor. His body has been deposited in the hospital morgue.

Police sources say investigations are ongoing to determine the circumstances surrounding the incident.

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FG cancels scholarship programmes abroad

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The Minister of Education, Dr Tunji Alausa, has announced the discontinuation of the Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) scholarship programme.

Alausa made this known on Tuesday in Abuja during a courtesy visit by newly elected officials of the National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS).

He described the BEA programme as an inefficient use of public resources, noting that many of the courses pursued abroad under the scheme were readily available in Nigerian universities.

“I was asked to approve N650 million for 60 students going to Morocco under the BEA programme when I assumed office in 2024.

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“I refused. It’s not fair to the majority of Nigerian students,” Alausa said.

The minister expressed dissatisfaction with the behaviour of some beneficiaries, who he claimed had resorted to “blackmail” on social media over delayed allowances.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that several BEA scholars had previously accused the Federal Government of abandoning them and failing to pay their entitlements.

However, the government recently clarified that all supplementary allowances had been paid up to December 2024.

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Established through diplomatic partnerships, the BEA programme enabled Nigerian students to study in countries such as China, Russia, Algeria, Hungary, Morocco, Egypt, and Serbia.

Alausa said the government would now redirect BEA funds toward domestic scholarship schemes to benefit a larger number of students.

“I reviewed the courses, some students were sent to Algeria, a French-speaking country, to study English, Psychology, and Sociology, programmes we offer better here in Nigeria,” he said.

He criticised the lack of academic oversight, revealing that scholars received free annual travel without proper performance monitoring.

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“In 2025 alone, the government planned to spend N9 billion on just 1,200 students.

“That’s unjust when millions of students in Nigeria receive no support. Every single course these students are studying abroad is available in Nigerian universities,” he said.

Alausa stressed that while current beneficiaries would be allowed to complete their programmes, the BEA scheme would not continue beyond 2025.

“We are cancelling the BEA. It is not the best use of public funds. The money will now be used to fund local scholarships and support more Nigerian students,” he said.

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Earlier, the newly elected NANS President, Olushola Oladoja, commended the minister for reforms and progress achieved since assuming office. (NAN)

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Obi doesn’t need political coalition to flush out Tinubu in 2027 – NLC declares

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The Nigeria Labour Congress (NLC) has declared that Peter Obi, the Labour Party’s 2023 presidential candidate, can secure victory in the 2027 presidential election without forming alliances with the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) or relying on figures like Atiku Abubakar or Nasir El-Rufai.

In an exclusive interview, Professor Theophilus Ndubuaku, Deputy President of the NLC Political Commission, described Obi as a credible, broadly accepted leader with deep grassroots and international support more than enough to unseat President Bola Tinubu, assuming a free and fair electoral process.

Ndubuaku dismissed speculation about Obi’s possible return to the PDP, labeling the party “crisis-ridden and practically empty.”

“Peter Obi is a sellable candidate. He doesn’t need any coalition to win in 2027,” Ndubuaku stated. “He was already in the lead during the 2023 elections, even clinching Lagos Tinubu’s stronghold which clearly demonstrates his nationwide appeal.”

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He emphasized that transparent and credible elections by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) would reveal the breadth of Obi’s support, which cuts across all six geopolitical zones.

His remarks follow the Obidients Movement’s recent reaffirmation of loyalty to Obi. National Coordinator Dr. Yunusa Tanko described Obi as the only candidate capable of bringing meaningful change to Nigeria.

Ndubuaku further criticized the PDP, arguing it no longer presents a viable platform for serious contenders. “The Labour Party has resolved its internal leadership disputes, unlike the PDP, which remains in disarray. Leaving LP for the PDP would be like jumping from the frying pan into the fire.”

He also downplayed zoning concerns, insisting Obi’s competence should take precedence over rotational politics.

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“The North may worry he’ll seek two terms and upset zoning arrangements, but Obi is not power-hungry he is driven by a sincere commitment to national transformation,” he concluded.

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