Relationship
Five subtle ways to punish a cheating partner
Discovering a partner’s infidelity can feel like a devastating blow, shaking the very foundation of trust and intimacy in a relationship.
While the knee-jerk reaction might be to seek retribution, it’s crucial to step back and consider constructive paths that foster personal growth and clarity.
If you want to get back at your cheating partner, here’s a subtle way to navigate these turbulent waters with dignity and forward-thinking.
1. Focus on self-care
First things first: look after yourself. The emotional turmoil following such a revelation can be overwhelming. Prioritize your mental and physical well-being by engaging in activities that bring you peace and joy.
Whether it’s taking up a new hobby, practicing meditation, or simply spending time with loved ones who uplift you, self-care is paramount.
While nurturing yourself back to strength your cheating partner will see you looking and feeling good and there’s no better revenge than self-improvement, let them see that they had a good thing.
2. Set clear boundaries
Setting boundaries is not only about revenge; it’s about respect. Communicate clearly what is and isn’t acceptable moving forward.
This might mean taking a break from the relationship to evaluate your feelings and the future of your partnership.
Establishing boundaries is a crucial step in healing, as it helps prevent further disrespect and establishes a framework for any potential reconciliation or closure.
3. Improve on yourself
Instead of, or in addition to, seeking external support, focus on self-improvement. This can mean anything from pursuing personal interests and goals to engaging in reflective practices like journaling or meditation.
Improving on yourself reinforces self-esteem and helps redirect your energy towards positive growth and fulfillment, don’t let them meet you where they left you.
4. Empowerment through forgiveness
Forgiveness is a powerful tool, not for the partner who strayed but for the one who was wronged. It’s about letting go of the burden of anger and resentment, not condoning the actions.
Forgiveness can be a path to emotional freedom and personal growth, regardless of whether the relationship continues or ends.
5. Embrace the possibility of moving on
Recognizing when it’s time to move on is a profound step towards self-respect and future happiness. Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting; it means choosing to seek happiness and fulfillment elsewhere.
It’s about opening yourself up to new possibilities, relationships, and experiences that align more closely with your values and desires for love and respect.
There’s no better punishment than letting them know that they no longer have access to you like they used to.
Forgive them, but most importantly forgive yourself walk with a free spirit and free mind, forgiveness helps you restore the peace and happiness you lost let the cheating partner know that they don’t have the power to steal your joy.
In the wake of infidelity, the focus should be on healing, understanding, and empowerment, rather than punishment.
By choosing to prioritize self-care, set boundaries, seek professional advice, engage in honest dialogue, and possibly embrace forgiveness, you can navigate this challenging time with grace and emerge stronger, with a clearer sense of what you want and deserve in a relationship.
Education
LP speaks on alleged strange romance with Tinubu over 2027 presidential race
The Labour Party (LP) has strongly rejected rumors suggesting that it is in a partnership with President Bola Tinubu in anticipation of the 2027 elections. These rumors claimed that the LP had struck an agreement to support Tinubu’s bid for a second term should he choose to run.
In response, the LP’s National Publicity Secretary, Mr. Obiora Ifoh, issued a statement on Friday, labeling these allegations as baseless and unfounded. He emphasized that the party has continually dismissed any notion of collaboration with the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) concerning the upcoming 2027 general elections.
Ifoh asserted that the Labour Party remains the most prominent opposition party in Nigeria, with the party’s National Chairman, Barrister Julius Abure, being a leading critic of the current government. “Our National Chairman is at the forefront of challenging the policies of the government, consistently voicing opposition to the actions of the current administration,” Ifoh said.
The spokesperson also highlighted the party’s ongoing efforts to strengthen Nigeria’s democracy. These include the establishment of an Electoral Reform Committee aimed at ensuring free, fair, and transparent elections, as well as the introduction of an e-membership registration system that has already attracted a significant number of new members.
Ifoh further expressed disappointment over the defamatory nature of the rumors, calling it “ridiculous and unfortunate” for anyone to attempt to undermine the Labour Party’s efforts in such a manner. “For anyone to try to tarnish the reputation of a party that is actively working to reshape the political landscape in Nigeria is truly unfortunate,” he remarked.
Finally, the Labour Party spokesperson challenged Deji Adeyanju and anyone else promoting such claims to provide concrete evidence to support their accusations. “We call on Deji Adeyanju and others to present factual proof if they believe that the leadership of our party or Mr. Abure has any intention of working with President Tinubu or the APC for the 2027 elections,” Ifoh stated firmly.
Education
BREAKING! END of road for Fubara as FG halts allocation
The Federal government has confirmed that it has stopped the October monthly Federation Account Allocation Committee, FAAC revenue payment to Rivers State amid the ongoing crisis in the oil rich state.
The Spokesperson of the Office of the Accountant General of the Federation, Bawa Mokwa, disclosed this exclusively to an online newspaper on Friday.
This comes as the Nigerian Government on Wednesday announced the approval for the disbursement of N1.1411 trillion as the October 2024 Federation Accounts Allocation Revenue to Federal, State, and local government councils.
However, a report emerged that FAAC revenue in October was not disbursed to Rivers State following a court stopping the Central Bank of Nigeria and the Nigerian government from carrying out such action.
Reacting to the development, Mokwa said the OAGF as a government agency will respect the court order.
Meanwhile, he stated that the October monthly FAAC revenue has not been disbursed to respective states as of filing the report.
“What I got is that the October 2024 FAAC has not been distributed yet. However, the Federal Government will obey the court order on the matter of Rivers State allocation.
“We are going to follow due diligence as long as there is no contrary order. In case there is a contrary, the status will remain,” he revealed.
He added, “The process of disbursement of the October 2024 monthly allocation is going.”.
Recall that on October 30, this year, Justice Abdulmalik of the Federal High Court barred CBN and the Nigerian government from disbursing monthly allocations to the Rivers State government.
This comes after an originating summons filed by the factional Rivers State Assembly, led by Martin Amaewhule.
The Amaewhule case was based on the grounds that the Rivers State Executive, under the leadership of Simi Fubara, was yet to comply with the order of a Federal High Court directing it to re-present the 2024 appropriation bill to the Amaewhule-led faction of the Rivers State House of Assembly.
In the past month, the Amaewhule faction, backed by Wike, former Governor of Rivers State, had been in a political battle with Fubara.
Recall that upon the emergence of Fubara as governor, he fell apart with his predecessor, Wike, which had led to a month-long crisis in the oil-rich state.
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Education
No feud between Akpabio, Bamidele
Senate Leader, Opeyemi Bamidele has denied ever having any altercation with the Senate President, Godswill Akpabio.
This was contained in a statement issued by his media office noting that:
“Our attention has been drawn to fake news currently being circulated on the X handle of one Jackson Ude, a known serial blackmailer and cash-and-carry journalist.
“The post is about an alleged altercation and physical fight between Leader of the Senate, Senator Opeyemi Bamidele and President of the Senate, Senator Godswill Akpabio on Wednesday.
“For the record, it is a verifiable fact that Senator Bamidele has never been involved in physical assault in over two decades of his political trajectory, not even when he was a young man leading the National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS) as President.
“It is surprising that the purveyor of this misleading information in his selfish agenda and unprofessional conduct threw ethos of Journalism into waste bin and decided to feast on roadside gists to tarnish the image of the Senate Leader.
“We are aware that the fake news is meant to cause disaffection within the Senate and by extension; heating up the political system.
“To think that the Senate Leader, President of the Senate and other principal officers of the Senate together received the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr. YU Dunhai and his delegation few minutes after leaving the plenary on Wednesday is a significant testimony against Ude’s imagination.
“Further to this, photographs of the Chinese envoys with the leadership of the Senate were widely published in today’s major national newspapers. It is equally verifiable that the Senate Leader and the Senate President both drove out of the National Assembly premises in the same vehicle yesterday.
“This time again, the Senate Leader is sounding a note of warning to all attention seekers in the ilk of Ude to be careful and not take the Leader’s gentlemanliness for granted.
“Henceforth, the Leader will be forced to use the instrumentality of the law to protect himself and his office as enshrined in the CyberCrime Act 2015.
” We, therefore, urge the public to disregard this misinformation and treat it with the disrespect it entirely deserves.
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