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Bullying: Dysfunctional Homes, Domestic Violence Are Factors — Psychologist

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By Kayode Sanni-Arewa

Following the viral videos of bullying incidents at an Abuja rich kids’ school and the attendant outrage on social media, PATIENCE IVIE IHEJIRIKA speaks to an expert about causes and red flags of the menace.

A psychiatrist/psychologist with the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Dr. Charles Umeh, has said that bullying, especially among children, is common with kids who are subjected to domestic violence or are witnessing domestic violence in their homes.

He also said that some children, by nature of the kind of environment they grow up in, tend to be violence-oriented.

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According to him, such children tend to drive their self esteem by overpowering others, saying this is one of the reasons they want to attach themselves to other persons, maybe trying to hang out with others in cultism and other boys’ groups.

Dr. Umeh, however, identified another aspect as personality disorder in children, saying; “The only thing we can look at is probably disorder in children which might metamorphoses into antisocial personality.

“Now these are people that by nature of their psychological makeup don’t want to be authority figures and they take delight in seeing others suffer and to them, its fun, so that is why we call it a personality disorder and they are very manipulative at the same time,” he explained.

Explaining further, the psychologist said: “When you talk about bullying, especially among the young ones, it is common among those ones who have witnessed their fathers beating their mothers or those ones that are subjected to domestic violence and because children learn vicariously, they always think that they can always get the things they need by getting on top of others.

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“When you look at bullying in primary schools and secondary schools you may begin to ask yourself, do they follow the same pattern? In primary schools, you could see that the reason could be from watching what happens at home, dysfunctional homes, domestic violence.

“It could also be the kind of upbringing they have. Now when the upbringing is such that children are allowed to do whatever they want to do, and you know most young children want to avoid anything that is stressful, so in an attempt to do that, they end up not obeying rules, not knowing the standard that is expected of them outside, so they are kind of susceptible to group behaviour or group activities so that they will belong.

“So you can see that there are so many contexts, depending on how you are looking at it. And whatever it is, bullying has negative emotional consequences to the victims.”

On how to know if a child is being bullied, Dr Umeh said when you see that a child that is doing well, suddenly his or her morale begins to drop, and some of the skills the child has acquired before, he or she begins to drop them, or even becomes very nervous, and beginning to withdraw, it is possible that the child is being bullied.

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LASG shuts down Idera market over ‘environmental pollution

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By Kayode Sanni-Arewa

The Lagos State Environmental Sanitation Corps (LAGESC) says it has sealed off the Idera market in the Oshodi metropolis.

In a statement on Thursday, Ajayi Lukman, LAGESC spokesperson, said the agency sealed the market due to unhygienic practices and indiscriminate dumping of refuse, which contravened the environmental law of the state.

He said the measure was taken to enforce adherence to environmental cleanliness across registered markets in the state.

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‘‘Our operatives stationed across the Oshodi division during routine market monitoring identified the filth, unhygienic practices, and indiscriminate dumping of refuse around the Idera Market area, which prompted us to seal off the market until further notice,” the statement reads.

Lukman quoted Olaniyi Cole, the corps marshal of the agency, as decrying the level of hygiene at the market, which could lead to an outbreak of diseases.

He said Cole frowned at the inability of the market leadership to provide a valid waste collection contract, which resulted in the heaps of refuse in the facility.

He added that the display of wares for sale on road setbacks, lay-bys, medians, verges, kerbs, street trading, and hawking remained banned in the metropolis.

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The LAGESC corps marshal reiterated the ban on the sales, distribution, and usage of styrofoam in the state, noting that anyone found culpable would be punished decisively.

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Hours to Edo guber polls, major opposition candidate crumbles structure for Ighodalo

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By Kayode Sanni-Arewa

Hours to the Edo State governorship election, the guber candidate of the All Peoples Party (APP)Amb Osalumese Areloegbe on Thursday morning collapsed the structure for the governorship candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Dr. Asue Ighodalo and his running mate, Osarodion Ogie Esq.

Addressing journalists at the party secretariat in Benin City, Areloegbe said his decision to collapse the structure for the PDP candidate was because he believed that Ighodalo had all it would take to govern the state to greater heights.

According to him, I urged all my followers and supporters to disregard any information that I have aligned with the All Progressives Congress (APC) governorship candidate, Senator Monday Okpebholo.

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“I am supporting Asue Ighodalo because he is competent, not that I am not competent but I believe Asue is on the forefront. That is my reason for supporting his candidacy.

“My party is aware because they have been having a series of negotiations for us to align with the APC, and I told them categorically that I am supporting PDP. My eighteen local government followers are in full support of my decision, I mean 100 per cent supporting the PDP candidate, Barr. Asue Ighodalo and his running mate, Barr. Osarodion Ogie in this election.

“My choice for Asue Ighodalo is because, apart from myself, I see him as the next better candidate that I can support and I can put my weight on because he has the capacity, mentally, physically and otherwise to pilot the affairs of Edo State to greater heights.

“The national secretariat of my party, APP – they are in Abuja and I am in the state, and know much more of what is happening in Edo State. They are not here and don’t know what is going on here in Edo. And I am in a position to tell them what will be better for the Edo people.

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“There is a parable that says, ‘You cannot shave a man’s head when he is not present’. I am here in Edo State and I know who to support and why I am supporting him. The national leadership might have taken a different tone, but this is what I and my followers have chosen.

“We had a series of other politicians who had made such decisions before. That is why I agreed with the support of my supporters to collapse my structure for the governorship candidate of the PDP Barr. Asue Ighodalo and his running mate, Barr. Osarodion Ogie.”

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SAD! Woman reportedly d!3s in Osun building c0llapse

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A resident of Ifetedo in Osun State, simply identified as Idowu, had reportedly died in an incident of collapse building that occurred in the town.

The collapsed structure was said to be a dilapidated building that suddenly caved in and killed the woman.

A resident of Ifetedo, simply identified as Ogunyemi, while speaking to The PUNCH on Thursday, said operatives of the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps, responding to a distress call, were at the scene of the incident.

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Some NSCDC operatives rushed to the scene after they were informed of the incident. They were joined by some other people in the community.

Idowu was the only person in the building when the incident happened. She was brought out dead from the rubble.

“The incident caused panic in Omiloode Area, where the building is located. The building that collapsed is a dilapidated structure,” Ogunyemi said.

Osun NSCDC Public Relations Officer, Kehind Adeleke, when contacted confirmed the incident, adding that the scene was immediately cordoned off by security men.

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“An abandoned dilapidated building located along Omiloode Street, Ifetedo collapsed and killed one Mrs Idowu, who was said to be around the structure when the incident happened.

“The tragic incident occurred at about 17:30 hours on Tuesday.

“Officers and men of NSCDC Ife South Division, upon getting information rushed to the scene of the incident for rescue operation. But unfortunately, the woman had passed on. She was brought out of the rubble dead. The site was immediately cordoned off,” Adeleke said.

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