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Lady Reveals Why Husband Divorced Her 2hrs After Their Wedding For Lying To Him

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A 26-year-old Nigerian woman named Hanifa has recounted how her husband divorced her just two hours after their wedding.
 
Hanifa revealed that it all began with lies about not having a child and claiming to be a virgin. She explained that she had gotten pregnant in a previous relationship where she dated two men but didn’t know who the father was. Both men denied being the father of her baby.
 
Hanifa said that raising her child alone was a tough journey. With no support, she took to the streets to sell clothes for a living.
 
Speaking to Afrimax, she said : “In 2019 i fell in love for the first time but that relationship only lasted two years because i often caught him with other women after our breakup i shared my experience with other women and many of them told me that their husbands also makes similar mistakes.
 
“I fell in love with another man as women we often feel the need to look good in the public and this became a problem for me when i found out that my new boyfriend was poor and couldn’t take care of me financially because of this, i decided to start another relationship and i ended up dating two guys at the same time these situation was not a blessing for me, soon after I got pregnant and because i was dating two guys simultaneously, i could not determine who the father was, this confusion made to to make another bad decision.
 
she continued: “Since i had no choice, i decided to tell both men that they bby was theirs when i was with the first one i told him the child was his and then when i was with the second one i told him the same thing however as soon as i did this, i realize my mistake one of them began to deny paternity claiming it is impossible because he had medical condition that made it unlikely for him to father a child i had to leave him and try the other man but to my surprise he also denied being the father i was left being in desperate and confused not knowing what to do next.
 
“After i gave birth, i started raising my child without the father’s help it was very difficult but as God provides for every child, we managed t get by eventually i found a job selling clothes which helped me regain my confidence and appearance … later i met another man who truly loved me and we fell in love with each other, this man was very wealthy when we met we talked and got to know each other however i made a big mistake when he asked about my past i didn’t tell him the truth i told him i was single and he was the first man i had romantic conversation with hiding the fact that I had a child during this time i would leave my baby at home while i went to work in the morning and returned int he evening after a long day at work i would take care of my baby.
 
“We fell in love and after a while like any other man, he wanted to sleep with me although i could have denied him with other ways i made a big mistake by convincing him that i was a virgin and would never sleep with a man before marriage… he was a very nice person and respected my claim even though it was a lie his love for me grew and he told me he would be patient until we got married although we never slept together it was possible because i had done it before and wasn’t a virgin as i had claimed his love for me grew so much that he later asked me to quit my job promising to give me my salary instead by this time we had developed a dee trust i would go to his house, spend time in his bedroom and explore his entire house e never forced me to sleep with him and assured me he would wait until we are married.
 
Introducing him to her parents and convincing them not to tell her man the truth, she said: “The time came i introduced him to my parents and i told everyone at home not to reveal the truth about me and my child however my family told me i was making a mistake by not being honest with him i didn’t pay much attention to their concerns and thought it would be easy to manage when my parents met him they were happy he then took me to his parents and they were pleased to see me as well with both family happy and supportive everything was set for our marriage and he had already provided everything necessary for my family to agree to the marriage
 
“We got married and on our wedding day, We went to an hotel for our honeymoon that night after taking a shower, we started unboxing gifts However i was filled with fear about facing the consequences of my lies… I decided to tell him the truth believing that as my husband he would understand and forgive me i initiated the conversation and confessed that i had lied about everything i revealed that i had a child and shared who i really was he became very angry and told me i was not a woman he could live with he said that even if we stay together, he couldn’t trust me to be loyal right after that he left the hotel telling me that everything between us was over.”
 
“I tried to reach out to him, but whenever I saw him, he refused to listen calling me a snake and telling me to stop pursuing him.
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Brotherhood crisis turns violent as worshippers reject Olumba’s successor

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The prolonged succession crisis in a Nigerian Christian religious sect, the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star, has festered on since its founder, Olumba Obu, passed away.

The crisis turned violent recently as angry worshippers in a particular branch in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, became riotous, destroying the portrait of Olumba’s first son, Rowland, who leads a faction of the sect.

Olumba’s daughter, Ibum, leads another faction.

A video, which is being circulated on WhatsApp groups and Facebook, captured a man in a white cassock yanking off Rowland’s portrait from the wall and smashing it on the floor amid cheers from worshippers.

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Rowland’s portrait was hung near Olumba’s, but the angry worshippers did not attack the latter.

“Bring it down!” a woman’s voice could be heard shouting in the background of the video as the man in a white cassock smashed the glass frame on the ground.

“This is who we are worshipping,” a man’s voice could be heard shouting repeatedly as the camera panned and then focused on Olumba’s portrait on the wall.

It is not clear when the incident happened.

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Amah Williams, the sect’s spokesperson, said the incident happened in Uyo at the sect’s Nsikak Edouk Avenue branch.

Rowland and Ibum, with hundreds of their followers, are claiming the leadership of the 68-year-old sect after their father’s passing, causing a disastrous split in a once united and strong organisation headquartered in the Biakpan community in Cross River State, Nigeria’s South-south.

‘They are rebels’

Mr Williams, the sect’s spokesperson, told reporters on Saturday in Uyo that those responsible for the incident belong to a breakaway faction called Brotherhood of the Cross and Star New Kingdom Ministry.

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He described them as rebels who do not want to accept Rowland’s leadership – he did not call Rowland by name as Olumba’s successor is revered among worshippers as “King of Kings and Lord of Lords, His Holiness Olumba Olumba Obu”.

“They are rebels. They rebelled; they rejected the rulership of the Kingdom of Christ,” Mr Williams told reporters.

“The holy image of our father is what we hold sacred,” he said, apparently referring to the destruction of Rowland’s portrait.

A reporter asked the spokesperson what place Jesus Christ occupies in the Brother of the Cross and Star.

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“That same (Jesus) Christ is the one that came with the new name Olumba Olumba Obu,” responded.

“If Olumba were to be a white man, black men would have gone to worship on his feet.”

The over 1 million global members of the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star do not see themselves as a church but as the new Kingdom of God on Earth. They have also refused to admit that their founder had passed away as the sect has yet to announce his passing or publicly conduct his burial.

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Tinubu’s reforms struggling to deliver meaningful results – IMF

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Eighteen months after the implementation of Nigeria’s ongoing economic reforms, the International Monetary Fund (IMF) has observed that the fiscal policies introduced by the President Bola Tinubu administration are struggling to deliver meaningful results.

Catherine Patillo, IMF Deputy Director, while presenting a report at the Lagos Business School (LBS) on Friday, reported a mixed performance of economic reforms across Sub-Saharan Africa, with notable successes in countries such as Côte d’Ivoire, Ghana and Zambia.

Nigeria was conspicuously absent from the list of success stories in the region.

The report stated that sub-Saharan Africa’s average economic growth rate is projected to remain at 3.6 per cent for 2024. It noted that Nigeria’s growth rate, pegged at 3.19 per cent, falls below this average.

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Patillo said that while macroeconomic imbalances have reduced in several countries, Nigeria has yet to show such progress.

She stated that more than two-thirds of countries have undertaken fiscal consolidation, stressing that while the median primary balance is expected to narrow by 0.7 percentage points alone in 2024, there are notable improvements in Cote d’Ivoire, Ghana, and Zambia, among others.

The report stated, “In contrast, Nigeria’s inflation rate, which slowed briefly in July and August, resumed its upward trend in September, rising further in October.

“At 33.8 per cent, it significantly exceeds the 21 per cent target set for 2024, with analysts predicting further increases in November and December.”

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The report also observed Nigeria’s struggles with exchange rate stability, highlighting it as one of the worst-performing nations in that regard.

According to the report, other countries in the region are experiencing reduced foreign exchange pressures but Nigeria’s local currency depreciation and instability remain a concern.

On debt servicing, the report said Nigeria ranked among countries suffering the heaviest fiscal burden.

The IMF noted that rising debt service obligations are consuming substantial portions of revenue, limiting resources available for development.

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It stated that in Angola, Ghana, Nigeria, and Zambia, the increase in interest payments alone absorbed a massive 15 per cent of total revenue.

The IMF grouped Nigeria among resource-intensive countries struggling with social and political challenges that hinder reform implementation.

Political unrest, public dissatisfaction, and tight financing conditions were identified as major impediments.

The report noted that resource-intensive countries continue to grow at about half the rate of the rest of the region, with oil exporters struggling the most and further noted that adjustment fatigue, public resistance, and weak communication strategies are undermining the impact of reforms in Nigeria.

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The IMF recommended rethinking reform strategies, urging countries like Nigeria to adopt measures that mobilise public support for deep structural changes.

It pointed out the need for greater attention to communication and engagement strategies, reform design, compensatory measures, and rebuilding trust in public institutions.

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NMDPRA seals oil, gas retail outlets in Delta over sharp practices

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The Nigerian Midstream and Downstream Petroleum Regulatory Authority, NMDPRA, has sealed petroleum retail outlets and gas plants over sharp practices in Delta.

Their offenses bordered on under-dispensing, operating without valid licenses and other illegalities within the filling stations.

They were sealed by the surveillance team of the regulatory authority at Asaba and Ibusa in the state.

The Delta State Coordinator of NMDPRA, Engr. Victor Ohwodiasa, revealed over the weekend that the authority would not tolerate a situation where people would be shortchanged as a result of under-dispensing and other illegalities.

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Ohwodiasa called on petroleum marketers to ensure that their metres are well-calibrated and sell accurately.

According to him, the awkward dealings included but not limited to under-dispensing, product quality, suspected diversion, illegal bunkering activities, illegal discharge of unauthorised petroleum products in unauthorised locations.

“In line with our mandates, we constantly visit petroleum retail outlets to ensure they sell one litre for one litre.

“Agreeably, there are bound to be variations due to mechanical error in their machines but these are subject to limits, when it exceeds, we shutdown the facilities,” he said

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“Based on what we have been doing to ensure the consumers are not shortchanged. We have been visiting retail outlets across the local government areas in the state to ensure sanity is brought and maintained within the retail outlets.

“This week, we have sealed four stations within the Asaba and Ibusa axis over offences bordering on under-dispensing, operating without valid licenses and illegal activities within the filling stations.

“We will continue to sustain the tempo in this ember months and beyond to ensure products are made available to consumers and sold at the right prices and quantity,” he said.

Ohwodiasa urged the public to always notify the regulatory authority whenever they notice any awkward transactions in their dealing with the petroleum marketers for immediate actions.

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