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Iyabo Ojo Bombs Social Media Critic VDM, Accuses him of poor motherhood
Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has launched a scathing attack on social media critic Martins Vincent Otse, popularly known as Verydarkman (VDM), describing his behavior as a result of poor parenting and calling out his mother for failing him.
In a candid and emotional post on her Instagram page, the actress lashed out at VDM’s toxic behavior, which she attributes to a lack of love, care, and stability in his upbringing.
According to Iyabo Ojo, the social media critic’s actions are driven by unresolved anger and pain stemming from his childhood. She suggested that his mother’s inability to nurture him properly, combined with her dependency on his ex-husband, contributed to VDM’s manipulative and narcissistic behavior.
In her post, Iyabo Ojo shared her reflections on VDM’s past, noting that he had to fend for himself at a young age, even resorting to stealing to survive. She expressed sorrow over the hardships he faced, questioning how his mother could have allowed such a traumatic experience. Ojo wrote, “I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Hence, your toxic narcissistic behavior. Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.”
She went on to address VDM’s accusations, claiming that his frustration is misdirected. “Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to lash out at successful women and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to acknowledge the root cause,” she wrote.
Iyabo Ojo also called out VDM’s mother, whom she referred to as the “president” among failed mothers. She questioned her actions and the lack of initiative in raising her son, especially in light of his troubling behavior. “Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on your ex-husband is concerning. Why didn’t you make continuous attempts to find out whose farm your son stole potatoes or chickens from to feed?” Ojo asked, emphasizing the missed opportunities to provide a stable environment for her son.
The actress further criticized VDM for projecting his anger onto others, particularly successful people, instead of addressing the root of his issues. “Vincent, your mother failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets, and you projected it on us; why?” she wrote, adding that the social critic’s manipulation and deceitful nature are a direct result of his upbringing.
In a final message to VDM, Iyabo Ojo urged him to forgive his parents in order to heal and find peace. “VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace,” she concluded. She also sarcastically remarked that VDM’s obsession with her name proves it lives “rent-free” in his head.
The actress’s post has sparked a flurry of reactions on social media, with many defending her stance while others have criticized the personal nature of her comments. Regardless, Iyabo Ojo’s message appears to be a call for self-reflection, urging VDM to confront the pain from his past rather than project it onto others.
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NASC appoints Andrew Nwoba as Clerk to Senate, elevates others
The National Assembly Service Commission (NASC) has approved the appointment of Mr Andrew Ogbonnaya Nwoba as the Clerk to the Senate.
The Commission approved the appointment, which takes effect from December 11, 2024, at its meeting held on Wednesday, December 4, 2024.
Before his appointment, Nwoba was the Secretary of the Directorate of Legislative Budget and Planning.
A statement by the NASC Deputy Director (Information), Mr Emmanuel Anyigor, said that the Commission also endorsed the promotion of other key officers of the National Assembly bureaucracy.
According to the statement, “Mr Emmanuel Odo was appointed Deputy Clerk (Administration) Senate, while Vivien N. Njemanze was appointed Deputy Clerk (Administration) House of Representatives.
“Also, Dr Obasi D. Ukoha is now the Secretary of the Directorate of legislative Budget and Planning.
“On the other hand, Mr Rawlings Agada was deployed from his former position of Deputy Clerk (Administration) Senate to Deputy Clerk (Legislative) Senate while Florence Kehinde A. was deployed from her former position as deputy Clerk (Administration) House of Representatives to Deputy Clerk (Legislative) House of Representatives.”
The statement said that the Commission had earlier approved the appointment of Ogundayo Mofoluwake Olufunmilayo as Secretary of the Directorate of Special Duties; Alkali Umar Abubakar as the Secretary of the Directorate of Human Resources & Staff Development and Essien Eyo Essien as Secretary of the Directorate of Zonal Liaison Offices.
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Affirmative Action for Women is Essential for Equity – Speaker Abbas
The Speaker, House of Representatives, Rep. Abbas Tajudeen, has emphasized that affirmative action for women is not a privilege or an undemocratic measure but a necessary corrective step to promote fairness and achieve gender balance in Nigeria’s political landscape.
In his keynote address at a session with Speakers of State Houses of Assembly, held to mark the conclusion of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence (GBV), Speaker Abbas called for the integration of women’s and gender issues into the constitution, policies, statutes, and budgetary processes of the country. The session took place at the National Assembly on Monday.
Reflecting on the significance of the campaign, Speaker Abbas noted, “This action signified our resolve to combat violence against Nigerian women and to reinforce our collective commitment to creating a safer and more equitable society.”
He recalled leading an advocacy walk from the National Assembly to the Force Headquarters, where a petition was submitted to the Inspector General of Police; this, he said, demonstrated the resolve of lawmakers to address GBV comprehensively.
The Speaker commended the 16 Days of Activism campaign, which began on November 25, for uniting various stakeholders in the fight against GBV and the push for women’s empowerment across the nation. He highlighted the National Assembly’s leadership role in legislative reforms aimed at protecting women and promoting gender equity. These efforts include the enactment of key laws such as the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act, the Child’s Rights Act, and the Trafficking in Persons (Prohibition) Enforcement and Administration Act.
Speaker Abbas stressed that the 10th House of Representatives has intensified these efforts through its Legislative Agenda, prioritizing constitutional amendments that will enhance women’s participation and representation in governance. He underscored the critical role women play, stating, “Women are the cornerstone of our families and communities, yet their political representation remains unacceptably low. This imbalance must change—not for improved statistics but for the transformative value women bring to governance, leadership, and policymaking.”
He further elaborated on the barriers hindering women’s full participation in political and public life, citing cultural norms, economic disparities, and insufficient legal protections as systemic obstacles. According to him, “A society that protects its women and leverages their potential is one that secures its future.”
To address these issues, the 10th Assembly has initiated constitutional amendment processes early, allowing time for thorough consultation and consensus-building. The House Committee on Constitution Amendment has been engaging stakeholders through sensitization and advocacy to garner support for provisions that institutionalize greater women’s representation.
“These efforts go beyond tokenism,” Speaker Abbas asserted. “Affirmative action for women is not undemocratic; it is a necessary corrective measure to address historical inequities and unlock our nation’s full potential. Many African countries, such as Rwanda and South Africa, have successfully enshrined affirmative action in their constitutions.”
The Speaker also acknowledged the critical role of state Houses of Assembly in advancing these reforms, urging state speakers to actively participate in ensuring that gender-focused constitutional amendments and legislation are adopted at the sub-national level.
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