BY BOLAJI AFOLABI
Oftentimes, it’s always challenging to organize commemorative parties for those who have distinctions in this pastime. Dr. Tunde Olusunle, Adjunct Professor of Creative Writing at the University of Abuja; recently re-named Yakubu Gowon University is one of the few masters in the game. Over the last two decades of close relationship with him, he has played massive roles in organizing parties for people. Call him a highly-rated events planner, you may not be wrong. He is not the usual, typical party planner around who has taken up the vocation as business. Olusunle does this for people dear to him; friends, bosses, colleagues, associations, communities, and more pro bono. At any of these occasions, he throws everything towards making the event successful. He invests his time, intellect, organisational savvy, and personal resources; months, weeks, and days to make the event grandiose. Some of his close friends eulogized his dexterity, expertise, and capacities in single-handedly coordinating parties, events, and other celebrations.
The writer, cognisant that Olusunle will mark his birthday in the month of March, was somewhat worried. Why? This year’s birthday was different, as the multi-tasking professional will climb “six stairs” and join the unique club of 60. So, who will coordinate a befitting birthday shindig for the “master organizer?” Can such match the quality of similar others that Babaeto; one of his titles, and moniker loosely translated as “Chief Organizer” has arranged for people? How can the standard set by him be met, if not surpassed? Still pondering, a thought came to mind. Given the national economic crisis that has led to accentuating poverty, staggering hyperinflation, disabling unemployment, corrosive hunger, and more, Olusunle; who is ever conscious of situations around him, may spring surprises. He may opt for simpler and modest celebrations.
About two weeks to d-day, an e-invite forwarded to the writer confirmed one’s thought. The card was beautiful in colours; aesthetic in design; and unique in words. Having close similarities with Babaeto’s imprimatur, it read, “please join us for drinks, bites, and laughter as we commemorate the Diamond Birthday of our father, husband, brother, and good friend; Tunde Olusunle ……” Further checks confirmed that the event was packaged by Dr. Funmi Olusunle, with Aramide, Yomi, and Tobi; wife and children of Babaeto was to be a modest gathering of people. On this, the “plotters” scored a bull’s eye. Surely, Olusunle will be excited that his ever-loving, dependable, and reliable better-half of over three decades, and scions are gradually “edging him out” in the plotting, planning, and execution of numerous surprise parties for people.
The weather on Sunday, March 30 was clement and friendly, away from the scorching sun of the previous day. This was the first surprise while heading to the event. Driving through the Gaduwa-Lokongoma axis of the capital city, the writer had another round of pleasant surprises. Making a detour, vehicular movements to the Estate gate; which was over 400 meters away, gave an idea of what to expect. After “snaking and snailing” through the entrance, which was about 100 meters to the residence, it became clear, and evident that this may not be a small event, as originally planned. The writer, struggling for a comfortable parking space, recalled what Pastor Tumo Ojelabi; a retired Director, Federal Ministry of Information earlier said, “Oga is a friend to all. It is almost impossible to have a small party to mark his 60th birthday. Many people will attend the event, either invited or not.”
Scheduled to officially commence by 5 pm, the programme was up and running an hour before. Given the elaborate preparations for any eventualities, the early arrivers were treated to a collage of bites, drinks, and soul-lifting songs. In between, there were memorable photo sessions on the lush green carpet emblazoned with Olusunle’s very visible portrait properly affixed. As the day progressed, more people made their ways to the beautifully decorated outer foyer of the celebrant’s residence. Hearty exchange of pleasantries, excited high-fives, warm embraces, friendly hugs, and more swept the entire atmosphere. The lively gathering was an admixture of grandparents, fathers, and mothers. Not forgetting the youths, and children. Typical of Olusunle’s enviable virtues of accessibility, humility, humanity, and inclusivity, guests and attendees cuts across different strata of the society.
With Yomi standing-in for the day’s master of ceremonies, (MC), the programme commenced a few minutes past five in the evening. Pastor Omotoba of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, (RCCG) offered the opening prayers, which was brief and impactful. Yomi, as the fill-in compere did a good job, as she was able to galvanize the audience with few jokes, gesticulations, and puzzles. Perhaps sensing the bulk of the happy guests were in their 40s to 60s, she requested for the rendition of early-school rhymes in the 1970s to late 1980s. Masterstroke! Led by a few ladies, the entire place came alive as it brought back nostalgic memories. Thereafter, the MC took over. Aramide delivered a “love letter” that was full of emotions, inspiration, and gratitude. Tobi, the “baby” of the house, who is a strong supporter of English Premier League’s Manchester United was working behind the scenes to ensure the overall success of the birthday bash.
Virtually all those called to describe Olusunle in one word, used the opportunity to heap praises, prayers, and commendations on him. Dr. Tivlumun Nyitse, Associate Professor of Mass Communications at Bingham University, Abuja, confirmed that, “we have been friends for over 40 years. Over the years and decades, the relationship has grown from family to brothers. As I wish him a happy diamond birthday, I advise him to slow down.” Dr. Femi Ajisafe, an agriculture entrepreneur affirmed that, “we both joined, and started work as secondary school teachers somewhere way-off modernity in a rustic, and sleepy community in Kogi state over three decades ago. Happily, we have been together; and our respective families ever since.”
Saluting Olusunle’s resilience, Dr. John Olarewaju, former Director-General, Michael Imodu Institute of Labour and Development Studies, (MIILDS) revealed, “he is ever dogged, determined, and sacrificial. So committed and consistent with writing that he can do it anywhere.” For Dr. Clem Baiye, former Managing Director, Daily Times PLC, “Olusunle is a go-getter.” An obviously joyous and excited Madam Elizabeth Olusunle, Mother of the celebrant expressed appreciation to family members and friends, particularly Dr. Funmi Olusunle for her steadfast love, and consistent understanding of everyone. Mama, also prayed for her dear son. The session ended with an inspiring Yoruba rendition by Anuoluwapo Favour Fabiyi; a hugely gifted and brilliant teenager.
As the evening progressed, it was clear that the planned simple hoedown turned to a classy, high-energy reception laced with flair and flash. Evidently wrapped in panache, pomp, and pageantry. From meals to drinks, jokes, and more, the get-together had trappings of charm, elegance, and sophistication. The dazzles and allure literally arrested everyone all through. It was exciting, entertaining, and memorable. Filled with thrills, frills, grills, and much more. The night was filled with revealing stories and engaging reminiscences that will be inspiring takeaways for many people. The excellent dishing and mixing of “old school” songs got many; including the writer either humming the lyrics, shaking heads, moving bodies or hitting the dance floor.
Indeed, the quality and quantity of guests who came to honour Olusunle; at short notice was a worthy testament of the recognition and acceptability of the celebrant as a “peoples man.” The roll call of personalities was large. Chief Onyema Ugochukwu, pioneer Chairman, Niger Delta Development Commission, (NDDC), and his lovely wife, Dr. Joyce Ugochukwu; AIG Tony Olofu, (Rtd), and wife, DIG Rhoda Olofu; Hon. Leke Abejide, Member representing Yagba Federal Constituency, and his wife were there. Dr. Boboye Oyeyemi, former Corps Marshall, Federal Roads Safety Corps, (FRSC); Pastor Tunde Ipinmisho, former General Manager, Public Affairs, Federal Housing Authority, (FHA); Prof. Sunnie Ododo, former Chief Executive Officer, National Theatre. Dr. Emmanuel Ikpeme, Deputy Secretary-General, Nigerian Football Federation, (NFF); Chief Femi Melefa, consultant and entrepreneur; Pastor Yomi Babaniyi, and wife, and many others graced the occasion. Not forgetting Hon. TeeJay Yusuf, and Deputy Corps Marshall Clement Oladele, who were out of the country and Abuja respectively, but extended their congratulatory messages to Olusunle.
As the elegant soiree spread late night guests had more to savour. Properly garnished, sumptuous delicacies, refrigerated drinks, and eye-popping small chops flowed endlessly. Undoubtedly, the knees-up; according to the British were exhilarating and enthralling. For many, the event, turned out to be a worthy, timely rendezvous of sorts. There was a reunion of old friends; re-kindling of friendships; and building of new networks. Many agreed that it will be an unforgettable experience.
* BOLAJI AFOLABI, a Development Communications specialist was with the Office of Public Affairs, The Presidency, Abuja.