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‘My Wife Sent Love Messages To Her Lover, Threatened Me With Knife For Dating Two Of My Church Members’

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A man, Gbolahan, has approached the Grade Customary Court sitting at Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, seeking the dissolution of his nine-year marriage to his wife, Sarah, on the grounds of alleged infidelity, incessant fighting, physical assault, and threats to his life.

Gbolahan accused Sarah of being unfaithful to him.

According to him, she was involved in a romantic relationship with a tricycle driver and frequently sent him affectionate messages.

The plaintiff further described Sarah as unfriendly and quarrelsome.

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He stated that her constant disputes with neighbours forced the family to relocate four times within eight years.

He added that Sarah became even more hostile, troublesome, and violent after discovering that he was dating two female members of his church.

Gbolahan alleged that his wife regularly insulted, assaulted, and humiliated him.

He claimed that the situation in their marriage worsened when Sarah began threatening him with a knife.

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According to him, he moved out of their matrimonial home last year to prevent her from carrying out her threats. He further stated that whenever they met afterward, Sarah continued to verbally abuse and embarrass him.

The plaintiff told the court that he had become exhausted by the defendant’s constant harassment and mistreatment, which prompted him to seek legal intervention.

Apart from seeking the dissolution of their marriage, Gbolahan requested custody of two of their three children and unrestricted access to the third child.

He accused Sarah of neglecting their children, claiming that this was the reason for their unkempt appearance.

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He also urged the court to issue an order, restraining Sarah from threatening him and invading his privacy.

In her response, Sarah denied all the allegations levelled against her. However, she expressed her willingness to end the marriage.

Gbolahan, in his testimony before the court, said: “I met my wife in 2017, and we had a customary marriage that same year. I did not pay her bride price.

“Sarah became unfaithful to me after we got married.

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“She dated a tricycle driver, to whom she sent love messages on a daily basis.

“We fought over this, and it led to a strain in our relationship.

“I established her in business twice, but she ruined both ventures because of her extravagant lifestyle.

“My wife is hostile and was always at loggerheads with our neighbours.

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“I got fed up with constantly settling quarrels between her and our neighbours.

“We lived in four different houses within eight years as a result of her troublesome nature.

“I was not spared from my wife’s cruelty.

“She fought with me continuously after she discovered that I was dating two ladies in my church.

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“She also threatened me with a knife on several occasions because of this.

“I moved out of our matrimonial home because my life was obviously not safe with my wife.

“Sarah still refused to let me be. She humiliates me in public whenever our paths cross and verbally abuses me.

“I came to court to put an end to our relationship and her mistreatment of me.

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“She neglects our children’s welfare, which is the reason they permanently look unkempt.

“I appeal for custody of our first two children while she retains custody of the third.

“I further request an order restraining her from threatening me and encroaching on my privacy.”

The court president, Mrs. S. M. Akintayo, adjourned the case for the defense.

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Enikanolaiye Appoints Elesho, Oni As Media Aides to Drive Strategic Communications, Digital and Public Diplomacy

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By Gloria Ikibah

The Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Ambassador Sola Enikanolaiye, has approved the appointment of two media professionals to strengthen the communication of the ministry’s mandate and the Federal Government’s Renewed Hope Agenda.

The appointments, announced by the Spokesperson of theMinistry, Kimiebi Imomotimi Ebienfa, are Mr Richard Elesho as Special Assistant on Media and Strategic Communications and Mr Raphael Oni as Special Assistant on Digital and Public Diplomacy.

According to the ministry, the two appointees bring decades of combined experience in journalism, public affairs, government communication and media management.
Elesho is a graduate of Delta State University, Abraka, and Kogi State University, Anyigba. He previously served as Chief Press Secretary and Director-General, Media Affairs, to two former Governors of Kogi State, Alhaji Ibrahim Idris and Capt. Idris Wada.
Until his latest appointment, Elesho was the North Central Bureau Chief of The News/PM News.

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Oni, described by the ministry as a specialist in diplomatic reporting, has more than 15 years’ experience spanning government communication, public diplomacy and international relations.

An award-winning photojournalist and diplomatic correspondent, he holds a Master’s Degree in International Relations and Diplomacy from the University of Abuja.

He has been the publisher of Diplomats Extra Magazine since 2013, a publication focused on diplomacy and international affairs and read by ministries, departments and agencies, embassies and other stakeholders.

Oni has also served two terms as Secretary-General of the Diplomatic Correspondents Association of Nigeria (DICAN), as well as Secretary-General of the NUJ Correspondents Chapel, Abuja.

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The ministry said the appointments were aimed at improving its communication efforts and ensuring more effective engagement with the media and the public on Nigeria’s foreign policy and diplomatic activities.

Ebienfa urged stakeholders to support the new media team and foster a cordial working relationship with the appointees.

“Let us give them the necessary support and looks forward to cordial working relationship with them,” he said.

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Aviation labour bodies give airline operators 72hrs deadline over unionization, TSC

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The National Union of Air Transport Employees (NUATE) and the Air Transport Services Senior Staff Association of Nigeria (ATSSSAN) have issued a three-day notice of strike to Nigeria’s domestic airlines, accusing the operators of blocking workers from unionising and non-remittance of ticket sales charges owed to the Nigerian Civil Aviation Authority (NCAA).

‎In a statement issued at the weekend, the unions said they were escalating the issue after the warning they gave on August 4, when the unions announced a notice of picketing and declared they were prepared to strike “at any time without further notice.”

Describing the latest move as a gesture of restraint, the unions said they were giving the airlines a further three days to address their grievances before industrial action begins. In the statement, the unions accused airlines of two major infractions.

They alleged that airlines have made it impossible for members of staff to join unions freely, despite repeated efforts by the aviation unions to secure that right.

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They said workers are too afraid to even express interest in union membership for fear of discrimination.

The unions also accused the airlines of withholding a 5% charge on ticket sales that is meant to fund the operations of aviation agencies. According to the statement, the non-remittance of these funds has stalled the implementation of collective bargaining agreements already negotiated on behalf of union members.

The statement read: “In relaxing the notice of picketing, dated 4th August 2026 by our unions, with a statement that we were ready to strike at anytime without further notice, we hereby magnanimously issued a 3-day Notice of Strike upon the defaulting domestic airlines principally for the following infractions:

‎”Making unfettered unionization of staff in their organisation impossible after several efforts by the aviation unions. Their workers dare not even express the intention to belong to unions of their choices.

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‎”Non-remittance of the already collected, but withheld 5% ticket sales charge, which is the operational fund of the aviation agencies, thereby rendering our members negotiated collective bargaining agreements at the aviation agencies nugatory so far. This continues to breed disgruntled air transport workers; the implication of which is an accident in the waiting!

“We want unequivocal declarations through circulars and other direct means of communication to their staff that they are free to join unions of their choices without fear of victimisation.

We want an immediate remittance of the seized operational funds of the aviation agencies to allow for the implementation of the conditions of service of our members in the various aviation agencies.”

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NERC dissolves Kaduna Disco’s board over N456bn debt

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The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission (NERC) has assumed direct control of Kaduna Electricity Distribution Plc (Kaduna DisCo), dissolving the utility’s board and stripping its core investor of management authority over a N456 billion debt.

NERC said in an order dated August 10 that Kaduna Electricity, known as Kaduna DisCo, is in a “grave situation” marked by prolonged default, weak commercial performance and a balance sheet where liabilities have outrun assets.

The regulator invoked its intervention powers under sections 75 to 79 of the Electricity Act 2023, the strongest tool available to it short of revoking the company’s license outright.

“The commission therefore is obliged to act in the public interest and to safeguard continuity of distribution services in KAEDC’s network area,” the order states, citing the risk that further delay could trigger an unplanned collapse of service and expose Nigeria’s electricity market to systemic risk.

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Kaduna DisCo’s cumulative market debt had climbed to roughly N456.5 billion as of May, split between N415.5 billion owed to the Nigerian Bulk Electricity Trading Plc and N41 billion owed to the system operator, according to the order.

The utility has also built up N14.26 billion in other statutory and third-party obligations, and has racked up more than N118.6 billion in additional market debt since ASI Engineering Limited took over operations in June 2024.

Kaduna DisCo paid just 41.93 percent of its adjusted market invoices in the year through December, leaving a shortfall of about N46.71 billion, the regulator’s data show.

That underperformance tracked losses across the network; aggregate technical, commercial and collection losses averaged 71.88 percent for the year, meaning the utility billed for barely more than a quarter of the power it received.

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Capital investment lagged even further behind commitments. Actual spending in 2025 came to about N2.48 billion against a required minimum of N24.51 billion, a shortfall the regulator pinned largely on the commission’s own forbearance rather than any acceleration by the investor.

Meter coverage, meanwhile, stayed below 36 percent of customers throughout the year despite repeated industry-wide pushes to close the metering gap.

NERC had conditionally cleared ASI’s plan to acquire 60 percent of Kaduna DisCo in January 2024, working alongside a technical partner, Akanksha Power and Infrastructure Limited.

That approval carried a list of conditions, proof of the partner’s operating capacity, a compliance roadmap, bank guarantees to the market operator and trading company, and management vetting, among others, that the regulator said were never fully satisfied even after ASI assumed day-to-day control.

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In a letter dated August 25, 2025, ASI told the commission it had met and was sustaining the approval conditions, pointing to restructured technical teams, loss-reduction and metering projects, and efforts to arrange equity and debt financing. Regulators found the supporting evidence insufficient. “The supporting submissions… did not provide adequate evidence of compliance with the conditions,” the order says, adding that documentation for planned infrastructure and technical-advisory work was missing.

Talks came to a head after the commission warned Kaduna DisCo’s shareholders and the Africa Export-Import Bank in a formal notice that an intervention was imminent unless a credible financial rescue plan materialised.

Representatives of the investor group met regulators, the Bureau of Public Enterprises, Afrexim and Fidelity Bank at Afrexim’s offices on June 11. All parties agreed at that meeting that ASI had not met the original takeover conditions or separate requirements set by the Bureau of Public Enterprises for finalising the share sale.

ASI asked for as much as 24 months more to stabilise cash flow and reach full market remittance. The commission, working with the Bureau of Public Enterprises and Afrexim, rejected the request, concluding that a further extension of similar length was not justified given the continuing risk to customers and the market, and that ASI had failed to back the request with a credible plan.

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Under the order, KAEDC’s board is dissolved and its directors removed, with a seven-member interim board of special directors, chaired by Abdullahi Garba and including a representative from the Bureau of Public Enterprises, installed for an initial six-month term.

The utility’s incumbent managing director, Abubakar Umar Hashidu, has been retained as administrator to run day-to-day operations, while background-clearance approvals for the wider management team have been withdrawn pending revalidation.

Afrexim will lead a competitive process, coordinated with the regulator, to find a replacement core investor within 12 months, with interim milestones for transaction documents, bidder shortlists and financing terms due at 60, 180 and 270 days. Prospective bidders will need to show working capital, a five-year turnaround plan and bank guarantees covering at least three months of market invoices.

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