“Hello Omajuwa. I am a 38-year-old full-time housewife who got married traditionally about 5 years ago.
My husband is a 49-year-old who had told me he got divorced 7years ago and had two children from the previous marriage.

The ex-wife and children stay in Canada. He is an architect who travels from time to time.

We have been looking up to God for a child since we got married and my husband has been quite understanding. He does not stress me about our childlessness.

My mother-in-law rarely picks my calls and does not trouble me about a child too. My best friend keeps advising me to do my best to give my husband a child so as to secure my place in his family.

Few months ago, my husband’s friend started living with us. It started out as him coming to stay the weekend but he has refused to leave.

Whenever I bring it up, my husband simply say that the friend is trying to get on his feet and he is helping him out because the friend was there for him in the past as well.

One afternoon, the friend walked in on my husband and I having sex and instead of getting furious, my husband asked that he joined us. I felt embarrassed that day but got used to it overtime.

My husband had said it’s just sex so the friend joins us occasionally. My husband travels a lot for work and sometimes when I feel too lonely, I simply go to his friend’s room to sort myself.

However, few days ago, I found out I am pregnant. My husband has been on a business trip for over a month now and I do not know how to tell him.

Hope he won’t question the paternity of this child? How do I know whose child I am carrying? Would it matter to him? Do I just get rid of the pregnancy?

I finally have what I have been longing for all these years but hope it will not ruin my home? Please help me.

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