“My husband is such a good man but he’s not sw€€t in bed. It’s been 7yrs of our marriage & I don’t think I can continue with this marriage anymore…

I can’t tell him because I don’t want him to feel bad nor in any way hurt his ego, So, a year after our marriage, i met my ex. We dated in secondary school.

We never broke up, we were only separated by distance & the relationship later got sour. Somehow, we started seeing each other again, been going on for 6yrs now. But to be honest, the only reason

I started seeing my ex again in the first place was only to satisfy my sx_su@l needs but i later realized that am still very much in love with him & he loves me too..

But, now its really hard for me to leave my husband because he’s a good man. He’s been so nice to me & my family. When I met him that time, I had just lost my dad & things were so difficult for me & my family. But he saved us from hardship & poverty.

Sponsoring my brother’s visa & trip to Canada & helped me complete my education & even build a small house for mom in the village. Also opened up a business for her. It’s thanks to him that am a graduate & now working as a nurse.

Truth is, I really loved him back then.

With all the above mentioned, I feel for him. I don’t want to see him get hurt cos i know how much that he loves me.

But, Its obvious that am only with him now cos of pity. I love my ex so very much & he’s the father of our my 3 kids..

We wish to get married. Pls help me, how do i make my husband understand this without hurting his feelings.

I am 33yrs old, still a young woman & i also deserve a sw€€t love life including my s-xsu@l needs. Which, its obvious i can never get with my husband..”