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Dear Tade: A Testament To Survival
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By Oye-Oyewo Olufoyekemi
The story begins, as many do, with a journey. Not the kind of journey that ends at a holiday destination with palm trees and cocktails, but one that quietly rewrites the course of a life.
Tade, tell Mommy that she made a good joke when she ‘shipped’ me to Africa to stay with Iya Agba. Tell her that when we first got there, I was very happy to be with my cousins as was our ritual every December. Tell her I was naive and hadn’t thought anything of it when she had carried just a small knapsack, while I had carried two giant suitcases. Heck, tell her I was foolish for not knowing, even when we had traveled in the middle of July.
Tell her that two days after she left, I forgave her. Tell her the only reason why I forgave her is that I had believed her when she had said she could read my thoughts, so I had thought she would know that I had forgiven her and come get me.
Tell her that three days after she left, Iya Agba started showing her true colours. She was different from the Iya Agba that we met every December that would buy us stuff and tell us alọ. Tell her that this new Iya Agba was cruel. She would wake me up very early to follow her to the farm and force me to bathe with cold water, even when I told her it made me sick. She only laughed and said I would get used to it—and she was right. I did get used to it, but not before falling sick more than a dozen times.
Tell her that this new Iya Agba would tell me not to talk to her and would beat me for not giving her a reply. Tell her that she had destroyed my confidence and the kids in school did not make it any better. Tell her that they always made fun of me and called me names like Oyinbo Talika.
Tell her that the kids in school hit me at any chance they got and some even went as far as tearing my notes. Tell her that I didn’t mind, and I had even prayed that they would kill me. Tell her that I really wanted to die until I met Eunice. Eunice was an Ibo girl whose father had just been transferred from the army base in Calabar to the one here in Ibadan, so she had transferred to our school. Tell her that with Eunice, life felt worth living again; she stood up for me and made me feel seen and heard. Tell her that my joy was short-lived because not long after Eunice came, she left. She disappeared without a trace, without even a single goodbye. Later, she would send a letter through our headmaster that her dad had been deployed back to Calabar, and there was no time to visit me. In the letter, she did say she was sorry, but I didn’t forgive her. Tell her that even though I’ve not forgiven Eunice, I still read her letter every day and hope to one day reunite with her.
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Tell her that I gained admission to study in the best private secondary school in Ibadan, but of course, she knows that one. Tell her that I rejected their admission and chose instead to study at Esate High School close to Iya Agba’s house because I didn’t want her money, the same way I didn’t want the clothes she always brought, so I gave them out. Tell her that decision didn’t come at no cost, that Iya Agba beat me till I bled, and called me a witch. Tell her that even with that, I still felt I made a good choice. Tell her that on the 28th of May, 2005, Uncle Dotun, Iya Agba’s younger brother’s son, came to my room when Iya Agba was at the farm. That day, I was to follow her as was our usual routine, but I was sick, and Uncle Dotun had told her he would watch me. Tell her that he had told me he wanted us to play a game. I quickly agreed because I was bored and needed to do something. Tell her that he had called it ‘first to remove his or her clothes.’. Tell her that I wasn’t sceptical, nor did I feel some type of way. After all, what did an eleven-year-old girl know?
Tell her that everything that happened next was a blur and that the only thing I remembered after was that I was bleeding and the firm warning he gave to me to never let anyone know about it. Tell her that this continued for a year till he finally gained admission to uni after 4 years of trying. Tell her that after a while, I started to enjoy the things he did to me—scratch that, the things we did to each other. Tell her that he was my one and only true love. Tell her that I was scared I was no longer a child of God; that was why I refused to see her when she came to visit that December. Tell her that her presence made me feel filthy, and I was afraid she would see through my facade, and condemn me.
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Tell ma that I dropped out of uni because I couldn’t cope; the workload was too much, and the male lecturers in my faculty were always chasing me. Tell her that a part of me is happy that Iya Agba died, and I don’t have to return to her place anymore. Tell her that when I received the news of her death, I wanted to jump for joy, but because of the people around, I feigned sorrow. I could almost laugh in between all the ‘peles’ and ‘take heart’ I heard, but instead, I nodded and forced tears out of my eyes. Tell her that my life is now mine, and I’ve decided to do whatever I want with it.
Tell her that I found someone who has promised to take me to Italy to get a better life.
Tell her that I’ve decided to follow the woman and we leave tomorrow at dawn. Tell her that by the time you get this letter, I’ll be well on my way to Italy, that’s if I wouldn’t have gotten there already. I would have told you to tell her not to bother looking for me, but I know it would be pointless.
So, tell her that if she eventually finds me, she should have mercy on me, that ọmọde lo ṣe mi.
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Obi’s TV interview exposed lack of policy depth — presidential aide
Senior Special Assistant to the President on Public Engagement, Frederick Nwabufo, on Monday criticised the presidential candidate of the Nigeria Democratic Congress (NDC), Peter Obi, describing his recent television interview as further evidence of what he called the opposition leader’s lack of policy depth and understanding of governance.
Reacting in a post on his verified X handle, @FredrickNwabufo, to Obi’s appearance on Channels Television on Sunday night, Nwabufo said the interview showed the NDC candidate had failed to articulate any concrete alternative policy direction.
“Peter Obi’s interview shows him again to be vacant of deep thought, understanding of governance, and taken up by syrupy rhetoric. He still has no plan, no alternative, and no policy plank, beyond a mouthful of sentimental nothings”, he said.
The presidential aide also faulted Obi’s claim that he would unite Nigeria, arguing that the opposition candidate failed to explain how he intended to achieve that objective.
“Obi claimed he would unite Nigeria, but failed to explain how beyond the tired refrain of his cooks and ADC being northerners”, Nwabufo said, adding that “his utterances, actions, and those of his followers have but deepened the chasm”.
According to him, national cohesion is built on “inclusive governance, economic integration, and equitable citizenship”, stressing that “the balancing forces of national cohesion are governance and the economy”.
He argued that strengthening national unity requires governments to ensure that “public resources are delivered to all citizens regardless of faith, ethnicity, or social standing and that the government is fair and just to all”.
Nwabufo said President Bola Tinubu had demonstrated those principles by ensuring that “the six geopolitical zones are equal beneficiaries of its programmes, initiatives, and projects, and indeed, all the accruals of governance”.
He further cited the administration’s appointments into public offices, saying, “He appointed young professionals from diverse backgrounds at an unprecedented scale. For the first time in the evolution of Nigeria, young people are superintending strategic sectors of government”.
The presidential spokesman also defended the President’s approach to national leadership, saying Tinubu had addressed concerns over the composition of the nation’s service chiefs while maintaining a unifying posture.
“There was a time, not so long ago, when the ethnic composition of the service chiefs was often a sore point for controversy, but in his true form as an architect of unity, balancing competence and patriotism, the President put an end to the concerns with wisdom”, he said.
He added that “President Tinubu, by his body language and extempore utterances, has maintained a nationalist and unifying position, bringing all together, and not given to divisive rhetoric. He has continued on the unifier’s path, stitching the national fabric, building a more cohesive nation and forging a shared future for us all”.
Responding to Obi’s criticism of the Renewed Hope Agenda, Nwabufo said the opposition candidate had failed to acknowledge what he described as visible gains from the administration’s reforms.
“Obi needs to get off the high of his rabid movement. The unmistakable trail of Renewed Hope shimmers across all villages, towns, cities, and local government areas in all six geopolitical zones”, he said.
He disclosed that members of the Presidential Communications Team had toured the country’s six geopolitical zones “to see things for themselves, feel the pulse of Nigerians, and conduit feedback to the government”.
Nwabufo added that the administration had documented evidence of economic improvements and transformative programmes, including the Nigerian Education Loan Fund (NELFUND) and interventions by the Small and Medium Enterprises Development Agency of Nigeria (SMEDAN).
“If Obi cares, there’s a digital binder full of reports of Nigeria’s economic turnaround under the current administration, inclusive of many transformative projects, policies, and programmes, such as NELFUND, that are impacting Nigerians at the critical cellular level”, he said.
He concluded that “under Renewed Hope, that hardworking young trader in Amatutu village in Agulu, Anambra can now get support for his small business through SMEDAN, and that brilliant child in Mopa Muro can go to university through NELFUND without the constraints of finance. This is simply Renewed Hope manifest”.
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Lagos varsity unions issue seven-day ultimatum, threaten indefinite strike
Workers’ unions across Lagos State-owned universities have given the Lagos State Government a seven-day ultimatum to address their outstanding demands or face an indefinite strike.
The unions also called on the state government to immediately implement the Federal Government’s agreements with the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU), Senior Staff Association of Nigerian Universities (SSANU) and National Association of Academic Technologists (NAAT), which they said took effect from January 1, 2026.
They further demanded the release of funds for the payment of the N50,000 palliative promised to staff on May 1, 2026, warning that failure to meet their demands within the stipulated period would trigger an indefinite industrial action.
The ultimatum was announced on Monday at a joint press conference organised by the Joint Action Committee (JAC) of Lagos State-owned universities at the Lagos State University (LASU), Ojo campus.
The briefing was attended by representatives of ASUU, the Non-Academic Staff Union (NASU), SSANU and NAAT, who urged the government to take urgent steps to avert a disruption of academic activities across the state-owned institutions.
The affected institutions are Lagos State University (LASU), Lagos State University of Science and Technology (LASUSTECH), Lagos State University of Education (LASUED) and Lagos State University College of Medicine (LASUCOM).
Speaking on behalf of the unions, Chairman of ASUU-LASU, Prof. Ibrahim Bakare, said Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu had announced on May 1, 2026, that all Lagos State workers would receive a N50,000 palliative, adding that the official communication from government indicated that tertiary institutions were included in the arrangement.
According to him, while workers in the Lagos State Civil Service received the payment, staff of the state-owned universities were excluded despite repeated engagements with university management and government officials.
Bakare said the unions had written to and held consultations with the offices of the governor, deputy governor, commissioners for Tertiary Education and Establishments and Training, the Head of Service, the Speaker of the Lagos State House of Assembly, the Accountant-General and relevant permanent secretaries in an effort to resolve the matter.
He, however, expressed disappointment over what he described as an unsatisfactory response from the government, noting that a letter received by the unions was vague and failed to provide a clear commitment towards implementing the governor’s promise.
“We explored every peaceful and reasonable avenue available to us because we believe in dialogue. Unfortunately, our members have become exhausted and can no longer continue to wait while other categories of public servants have received the payment,” he said.
Bakare disclosed that after consultations across the affected institutions, the unions resolved to issue a seven-day ultimatum to enable the government process the necessary approvals and release the funds.
He warned that failure to meet the demand before the expiration of the ultimatum would compel the unions to determine their next line of action, including embarking on industrial action.
“We pray industrial action does not happen, but if we are pushed to that point, we will have no other option. We cannot continue to allow our members to suffer under the current economic realities,” he said.
Bakare said Lagos had accumulated seven months of outstanding liabilities under the Federal Government agreements, despite assurances previously given by the Deputy Governor, Obafemi Hamzat that future federal agreements would be implemented promptly to avoid a backlog of arrears.
He noted that several state-owned universities in Ekiti and Osun states had already implemented the agreements, describing Lagos State’s delay as surprising for a state regarded as one of the country’s most developed.
The unions also renewed calls for the fulfilment of other welfare commitments, including the release of staff buses promised by Sanwo-Olu and the resolution of the outstanding 20 per cent salary-related issue discussed during previous negotiations with the government.
Also speaking, Chairman of NASU-LASU, Comrade Obafemi Sanni, said the unions were forced to issue the ultimatum because of what he described as the government’s lackadaisical attitude towards implementing agreements affecting workers in tertiary institutions.
He maintained that if the government failed to act before the ultimatum expires, the unions would have no alternative but to embark on an indefinite industrial action.
The unions said they remain committed to dialogue but insisted that the welfare of workers must receive urgent attention to sustain industrial harmony across Lagos State-owned universities. Union representatives from other universities appealed to the state to accede to their demands,noting that many of their members were dying.
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Kidnappers demand N200m to free abducted Kebbi High Court Judge
Kidnappers holding Kebbi State High Court Judge, Justice Faruku Hassan Bunza, have demanded a N200 million ransom from his family for his release, as security operatives intensify efforts to rescue him.
Kebbi State Commissioner of Police, Umar Muhammad Hadejia, disclosed the ransom demand while briefing journalists on Monday in Birnin Kebbi.
He said the police received intelligence on the demand after launching a swift response to the judge’s abduction, which occurred in the early hours of Sunday at his residence along Zogirma Road in Bunza.
According to Hadejia, the Command has deployed a combined team of police operatives to comb suspected escape routes used by the kidnappers in a bid to rescue the judge unharmed and apprehend those responsible.
He added that multiple checkpoints had been mounted along strategic routes believed to have been used by the abductors to prevent their escape.
The police commissioner expressed confidence that the ongoing operation would lead to the safe rescue of the judge and the arrest of the kidnappers.
Hadejia also confirmed the killing of a suspected kidnapper, Abdulaziz Dogo, and the arrest of another suspect, Ibrahim Abdulwahab, both residents of Ilesha in Kwara State, over the abduction of former Kebbi State Deputy Speaker, Muhammad Samaila Bagudo, on October 31, 2025.
He advised residents, particularly government officials, to avoid travelling late at night, warning that such journeys expose them to attacks by bandits and kidnappers.
The commissioner said the judge’s family informed the police that he frequently travelled at night despite repeated warnings.
He added that the family also reported that the kidnappers had contacted a registrar of the High Court in Abuja regarding negotiations over the N200 million ransom.
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