10 habits of unsuccessful people who never move forward in life

Published

7 months ago

May 15, 2024

1) Fear of taking risks
In the journey of personal growth and achievement, embracing risk is non-negotiable.

That’s why those who struggle to succeed tend to avoid anything risky. They’re afraid of failing, so they stick to what’s safe.

Now, embracing risks involves stepping out of your comfort zone and being willing to try new things, even if they might not work out.

Start by identifying areas where you feel hesitant or afraid to take action.

Then, gradually expose yourself to those situations and take small steps towards overcoming your fears.

2) Procrastination
I’ve been there, and I’m sure you have too.

It’s that moment when you have a task at hand, but the temptation to put it off for later is just too strong.

A classic example from my own life was when I planned to start a fitness regime.

I had the perfect plan in place, but I kept telling myself, “I’ll start from Monday” or “I’ll start from next month.”

This habit of mine, procrastination, is a common trait among unsuccessful people who don’t move forward in life.

They have plans, ideas, and dreams, but they keep waiting for the ‘perfect’ moment to start.

Unfortunately, that perfect moment never comes.

Let it sink in: procrastination is a thief of time and one of the surest ways to remain stagnant in life.

3) Lack of learning
The world is changing at a rapid pace.

In this dynamic environment, continuous learning is not just an option, it’s a necessity.

Yet, it’s all too common for those who fall short of their dreams to settle into a comfort zone post-formal education, convinced they’ve gathered all they need.

They close the door to growth, missing out on the boundless opportunities that learning brings.

But here’s the truth: for every successful individual, learning isn’t a phase—it’s a lifelong adventure.

They understand that knowledge isn’t static; it’s a dynamic force that propels them forward.

4) Negativity
Having a positive mindset can shape how we approach challenges and pave the way for success.

But some people, when faced with obstacles, tend to zoom in on the negative stuff.

They dwell on problems rather than brainstorming solutions, which can cloud their vision of the opportunities ahead.

This habit of seeing the glass half empty can zap their motivation and make it harder to move forward.

It’s like having a weight dragging them down when they could be soaring high.

5) Lack of goal setting

In life, setting goals is like plotting our course on a map—it gives us direction and purpose to navigate the journey ahead.

Sadly, it’s not uncommon for those who fall short of their aspirations to wander aimlessly—without a defined destination.

Here’s the thing: setting goals clarifies what you want to achieve.

It gives you a clear sense of direction and guides your actions towards your desired outcome.

Also, goals provide motivation by giving you something to strive for.

When you have clear objectives in mind, you’re more likely to stay focused and disciplined in pursuing them, even when faced with challenges or setbacks.

6) Avoidance of responsibility
Life’s a rollercoaster, packed with twists and turns.

We all stumble, face hurdles, and hit roadblocks along the way.

But here’s the kicker: people who’re struggling to reach their full potential tend to dodge responsibility like it’s a plague.

They point fingers at everything but themselves—blaming circumstances, people, or fate for their flops.

Sure, it’s cozy to shift the blame. But it’s a dead end.

Taking ownership is the key to learning, growing, and blazing ahead on your journey.

7) Fear of change
Change can be a daunting prospect.

I remember my first job switch. I had a comfortable position, familiar colleagues, and a routine I was used to.

The thought of walking away from it all and stepping into the unknown was terrifying.

This fear of change is a common trait among unsuccessful people.

They prefer to stick to the familiar, even if it’s not serving them well.

They resist change, choosing comfort over growth.

Yet, life is all about evolution and progress.

And progress is impossible without change.

8) Overvaluing comfort
Comfort is like a cozy blanket on a chilly day.

It lures us into a false sense of security, telling us how nice it is to stay put.

But let’s get real–your breakthrough happens outside your comfort zone.

Opting for comfort is a common habit among those who struggle to succeed.

They cling to familiarity, enduring jobs they despise or sidestepping difficult tasks because they’re daunting.

Though it feels like the safer route, this reliance on comfort can hinder progress.

It discourages risk-taking, stifles exploration, and keeps us stuck in place.

9) Lack of self-belief
Believing in oneself is a powerful catalyst for success.

It fuels our determination, drives our actions, and propels us forward.

However, unsuccessful people often lack this self-belief.

They doubt their abilities and potential, letting these insecurities hold them back from achieving their goals.

This lack of self-belief can be a significant barrier to progress.

It limits our willingness to take risks, try new things, and reach for our dreams.

10) Ignoring feedback
Feedback is like a mirror that shows us where we’re doing well and where we could do better.

But some people don’t like looking in that mirror.

They see feedback as criticism and get defensive.

This can hold them back from getting better at what they do.

Here’s the thing: taking feedback in your stride, even when you don’t like it, is all about keeping an open mind.

Instead of seeing it as a personal attack, try to view it as an opportunity to learn and grow.

Listen to what’s being said without getting defensive, and focus on understanding how you can use the feedback to improve.

LP speaks on alleged strange romance with Tinubu over 2027 presidential race

Published

4 weeks ago

November 23, 2024

Kayode Sanni-Arewa

The Labour Party (LP) has strongly rejected rumors suggesting that it is in a partnership with President Bola Tinubu in anticipation of the 2027 elections. These rumors claimed that the LP had struck an agreement to support Tinubu’s bid for a second term should he choose to run.

In response, the LP’s National Publicity Secretary, Mr. Obiora Ifoh, issued a statement on Friday, labeling these allegations as baseless and unfounded. He emphasized that the party has continually dismissed any notion of collaboration with the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) concerning the upcoming 2027 general elections.

Ifoh asserted that the Labour Party remains the most prominent opposition party in Nigeria, with the party’s National Chairman, Barrister Julius Abure, being a leading critic of the current government. “Our National Chairman is at the forefront of challenging the policies of the government, consistently voicing opposition to the actions of the current administration,” Ifoh said.

The spokesperson also highlighted the party’s ongoing efforts to strengthen Nigeria’s democracy. These include the establishment of an Electoral Reform Committee aimed at ensuring free, fair, and transparent elections, as well as the introduction of an e-membership registration system that has already attracted a significant number of new members.

Ifoh further expressed disappointment over the defamatory nature of the rumors, calling it “ridiculous and unfortunate” for anyone to attempt to undermine the Labour Party’s efforts in such a manner. “For anyone to try to tarnish the reputation of a party that is actively working to reshape the political landscape in Nigeria is truly unfortunate,” he remarked.

Finally, the Labour Party spokesperson challenged Deji Adeyanju and anyone else promoting such claims to provide concrete evidence to support their accusations. “We call on Deji Adeyanju and others to present factual proof if they believe that the leadership of our party or Mr. Abure has any intention of working with President Tinubu or the APC for the 2027 elections,” Ifoh stated firmly.

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BREAKING! END of road for Fubara as FG halts allocation

Published

4 weeks ago

November 22, 2024

Naijablitznews

The Federal government has confirmed that it has stopped the October monthly Federation Account Allocation Committee, FAAC revenue payment to Rivers State amid the ongoing crisis in the oil rich state.

The Spokesperson of the Office of the Accountant General of the Federation, Bawa Mokwa, disclosed this exclusively to an online newspaper on Friday.

This comes as the Nigerian Government on Wednesday announced the approval for the disbursement of N1.1411 trillion as the October 2024 Federation Accounts Allocation Revenue to Federal, State, and local government councils.

However, a report emerged that FAAC revenue in October was not disbursed to Rivers State following a court stopping the Central Bank of Nigeria and the Nigerian government from carrying out such action.

Reacting to the development, Mokwa said the OAGF as a government agency will respect the court order.

Meanwhile, he stated that the October monthly FAAC revenue has not been disbursed to respective states as of filing the report.

“What I got is that the October 2024 FAAC has not been distributed yet. However, the Federal Government will obey the court order on the matter of Rivers State allocation.

“We are going to follow due diligence as long as there is no contrary order. In case there is a contrary, the status will remain,” he revealed.

He added, “The process of disbursement of the October 2024 monthly allocation is going.”.

Recall that on October 30, this year, Justice Abdulmalik of the Federal High Court barred CBN and the Nigerian government from disbursing monthly allocations to the Rivers State government.

This comes after an originating summons filed by the factional Rivers State Assembly, led by Martin Amaewhule.

The Amaewhule case was based on the grounds that the Rivers State Executive, under the leadership of Simi Fubara, was yet to comply with the order of a Federal High Court directing it to re-present the 2024 appropriation bill to the Amaewhule-led faction of the Rivers State House of Assembly.

In the past month, the Amaewhule faction, backed by Wike, former Governor of Rivers State, had been in a political battle with Fubara.

Recall that upon the emergence of Fubara as governor, he fell apart with his predecessor, Wike, which had led to a month-long crisis in the oil-rich state.

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Education

No feud between Akpabio, Bamidele

Published

4 weeks ago

November 22, 2024

Naijablitznews

Senate Leader, Opeyemi Bamidele has denied ever having any altercation with the Senate President, Godswill Akpabio.

This was contained in a statement issued by his media office noting that:

“Our attention has been drawn to fake news currently being circulated on the X handle of one Jackson Ude, a known serial blackmailer and cash-and-carry journalist.

“The post is about an alleged altercation and physical fight between Leader of the Senate, Senator Opeyemi Bamidele and President of the Senate, Senator Godswill Akpabio on Wednesday.

“For the record, it is a verifiable fact that Senator Bamidele has never been involved in physical assault in over two decades of his political trajectory, not even when he was a young man leading the National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS) as President.

“It is surprising that the purveyor of this misleading information in his selfish agenda and unprofessional conduct threw ethos of Journalism into waste bin and decided to feast on roadside gists to tarnish the image of the Senate Leader.

“We are aware that the fake news is meant to cause disaffection within the Senate and by extension; heating up the political system.

“To think that the Senate Leader, President of the Senate and other principal officers of the Senate together received the Chinese Ambassador to Nigeria, Mr. YU Dunhai and his delegation few minutes after leaving the plenary on Wednesday is a significant testimony against Ude’s imagination.

“Further to this, photographs of the Chinese envoys with the leadership of the Senate were widely published in today’s major national newspapers. It is equally verifiable that the Senate Leader and the Senate President both drove out of the National Assembly premises in the same vehicle yesterday.

“This time again, the Senate Leader is sounding a note of warning to all attention seekers in the ilk of Ude to be careful and not take the Leader’s gentlemanliness for granted.

“Henceforth, the Leader will be forced to use the instrumentality of the law to protect himself and his office as enshrined in the CyberCrime Act 2015.

” We, therefore, urge the public to disregard this misinformation and treat it with the disrespect it entirely deserves.