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Iyabo Ojo Bombs Social Media Critic VDM, Accuses him of poor motherhood

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Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo has launched a scathing attack on social media critic Martins Vincent Otse, popularly known as Verydarkman (VDM), describing his behavior as a result of poor parenting and calling out his mother for failing him.

In a candid and emotional post on her Instagram page, the actress lashed out at VDM’s toxic behavior, which she attributes to a lack of love, care, and stability in his upbringing.

According to Iyabo Ojo, the social media critic’s actions are driven by unresolved anger and pain stemming from his childhood. She suggested that his mother’s inability to nurture him properly, combined with her dependency on his ex-husband, contributed to VDM’s manipulative and narcissistic behavior.

In her post, Iyabo Ojo shared her reflections on VDM’s past, noting that he had to fend for himself at a young age, even resorting to stealing to survive. She expressed sorrow over the hardships he faced, questioning how his mother could have allowed such a traumatic experience. Ojo wrote, “I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and I must say, it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Hence, your toxic narcissistic behavior. Your parents failed to provide you with a nurturing environment, leading to unresolved anger and pain.”

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She went on to address VDM’s accusations, claiming that his frustration is misdirected. “Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to lash out at successful women and men. Your anger and frustration are misplaced, and it’s time to acknowledge the root cause,” she wrote.

Iyabo Ojo also called out VDM’s mother, whom she referred to as the “president” among failed mothers. She questioned her actions and the lack of initiative in raising her son, especially in light of his troubling behavior. “Mama Vincent, your lack of initiative and dependence on your ex-husband is concerning. Why didn’t you make continuous attempts to find out whose farm your son stole potatoes or chickens from to feed?” Ojo asked, emphasizing the missed opportunities to provide a stable environment for her son.

The actress further criticized VDM for projecting his anger onto others, particularly successful people, instead of addressing the root of his issues. “Vincent, your mother failed to provide you with a stable and loving environment, left you for the streets, and you projected it on us; why?” she wrote, adding that the social critic’s manipulation and deceitful nature are a direct result of his upbringing.

In a final message to VDM, Iyabo Ojo urged him to forgive his parents in order to heal and find peace. “VDM, free your heart from hate by first forgiving your parents so that you can find peace,” she concluded. She also sarcastically remarked that VDM’s obsession with her name proves it lives “rent-free” in his head.

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The actress’s post has sparked a flurry of reactions on social media, with many defending her stance while others have criticized the personal nature of her comments. Regardless, Iyabo Ojo’s message appears to be a call for self-reflection, urging VDM to confront the pain from his past rather than project it onto others.

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Senate Sets Jan 31 For Passage of N49.7trn 2025 Budget

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By Kayode Sanni-Arewa

The Chairman of the Senate Committee on Appropriations, Adeola Olamilekan, has affirmed January 31, 2025, as a provisional date for the passage of the 2025 ₦49.7tn budget as the committee prepares to begin budget defence on Tuesday.

He made this disclosure on Monday during a meeting with the chairmen of relevant committees on the template for the 2025 Budget Defence Session to guide the budget process towards its eventual signing into law.

Olamilekan further revealed that upon the resumption of plenary by the 14th of January 2025, the Senate would immediately commence a two-week break for the seamless continuation of the budget defence process.

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He equally revealed a planned retreat on Thursday on the budget consideration which will involve ministries, departments and agencies, civil society organisations, and other stakeholders in the polity for further consultation and insight into the content of the budget proposal

According to the timetable, from the 15th to the 18th of January, it is expected that the committees would report back on their documents, after which collation and tiding of documents by the Appropriation Committee.

Acknowledging the limited timeframe, Olamilekan emphasised the need for lawmakers to intensify their efforts. He also urged his colleagues to forgo their holidays and begin immediate work on the proposed budget estimate, underscoring the importance of timely and efficient handling of the budget process within the stipulated timeframe.

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My life now under heavy threat after my new year message – Obi alleges

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By Kayode Sanni-Arewa

The Labour Party (LP) presidential candidate in the 2023 elections, Peter Obi, has alleged threat to his life following his criticism of President Bola Tinubu’s administration in his new year message.

Obi’s allegation follows a statement credited to the national spokesperson of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Felix Morka, in a recent interview.

Morka was quoted to have said that “Peter Obi has crossed the line so many times and has it coming to him whatever he gets”.

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In his new year press conference on Thursday, Obi had lamented the political, economic and security, healthcare situation in the country.

The former Anambra State governor said that the political, economic and security situation of Nigeria is worsening daily, despite government’s contrary positions and claims of improvement in different spheres of human endeavour.

“Our national challenges are visibly worsening. Our nation and its fortunes are in clear reverse. The indices are clearly indicative of our decline; thus our national indices tell a disconcerting story,” Obi said.

“Nigeria remains one of the poverty capitals of the world, with over 100 million people living in extreme poverty and more than 150 million in multidimensional poverty. The situation has deteriorated significantly over the past 18 months under the current administration.

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“As a nation, we have fallen from being the largest economy in Africa, with a GDP of $574 billion and a per capita income of over $3,500 in 2014, to now ranking fourth on the continent. Our current GDP is less than 50% of what it was a decade ago, standing at approximately $200 billion, with a per capita income of barely $1,000.”

Reacting to Morka’s statement in a post on his X handle on Monday, Obi asked if he has “really crossed the line” after receiving threats against his life, family, and associates following his New Year’s message.

He challenged anyone who thinks he has crossed the line to point it out to him where he did, expressing his commitment to upholding decorum.

The former governor also vowed not to be silenced in his resolve to speak truthfully, especially as the country “drift toward undemocratic practices.”

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His post reads, “I ask the question because my New Year message has now led to threats against my life, my family, and those around me. While I have received all sorts of messages, one Mr. Felix Morka has gone further to accuse me of “crossing the line” and has warned that I will face the consequences.

“If I have truly crossed the line, I invite anyone to point it out, as I remain committed to upholding decorum. However, I will not be silenced in my resolve to speak truthfully, especially as our nation continues to drift toward undemocratic practices.

“We are increasingly transforming into an authoritarian and repressive regime, where freedom of expression is being systematically suppressed. May God help us create a better and freer society for the sake of our children.”

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Sad !Explosion rocks Abuja school

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By Kayode Sanni-Arewa

An explosion suspected to be a bomb has rocked an Islamiyyah school in the Kuchibiyu Community of Bwari Area Council, Abuja, killing one student and injuring four others.

A report by Premium Times said the incident occurred around noon on Monday, January 6, 2025.

The deafening explosion reportedly sent shockwaves through the quiet community located approximately 42 kilometres from Abuja’s city centre.

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Emergency response teams, including the police bomb disposal squad, promptly arrived at the scene, while the injured were rushed to a nearby hospital for urgent medical care.

The report quoted a security source to have disclosed that the deceased student, whose identity had yet to be confirmed as of press time, was reportedly carrying a substance suspected to be an Improvised Explosive Device (IED) when it detonated.

The explosion caused injuries to other students and widespread panic in and around the school premises.

Authorities at the school were unavailable for comment, and the Federal Capital Territory Police Command had yet to issue an official statement as of press time.

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Repeated calls to the FCT Police spokesperson, Josephine Adeh, did not connect.

The affected students were said to have resumed school just three days ago, on January 3.

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